I never had to have that conversation. My husband told me he couldn’t drive anymore. Told me he didn’t trust himself. He did this two years before being diagnosed with dementia.
Boy you tackled a rough one. This was a discussion held by Jenny, her brother and two sisters. I guess Jean had a rough time of it. She was fiercely independent. I was happy not to be a part of it. I was. There when they dismantled the stove. Then Jenny must have made 20 trips to re-teach Jean how to use the microwave.
Yeah I can see how that would be a problem. We were fortunate that Dad never did much cooking. I don't know how it will shake out as Mom declines. I do 99% of the cooking now.
While hearing is ideal for driving, deaf people do drive. It is legal for fully deaf people to drive in all 50 states. I wear 2 hearing aids and have a severe-to-profound hearing loss. While I can hear sirens, I can't tell from what direction the noise is coming from. I rely on my enhanced visual awareness and the better technology that is now available in newer cars. So I wouldn't automatically use hearing or lack of hearing as a metric for whether or not someone can drive. Sight is important, yes; you kind of have to see to drive. LOL. Hearing, no.
I never had to have that conversation. My husband told me he couldn’t drive anymore. Told me he didn’t trust himself. He did this two years before being diagnosed with dementia.
It's always easier when they come to it on their own!
Boy you tackled a rough one. This was a discussion held by Jenny, her brother and two sisters. I guess Jean had a rough time of it. She was fiercely independent. I was happy not to be a part of it. I was. There when they dismantled the stove. Then Jenny must have made 20 trips to re-teach Jean how to use the microwave.
Yeah I can see how that would be a problem. We were fortunate that Dad never did much cooking. I don't know how it will shake out as Mom declines. I do 99% of the cooking now.
While hearing is ideal for driving, deaf people do drive. It is legal for fully deaf people to drive in all 50 states. I wear 2 hearing aids and have a severe-to-profound hearing loss. While I can hear sirens, I can't tell from what direction the noise is coming from. I rely on my enhanced visual awareness and the better technology that is now available in newer cars. So I wouldn't automatically use hearing or lack of hearing as a metric for whether or not someone can drive. Sight is important, yes; you kind of have to see to drive. LOL. Hearing, no.
My parents both refuse(d) hearing devices. You are correct, however, it's something to consider. Especially if both are present.